“I Miss Him” – Get Him Back and Avoid Further Heartache

No Commented Thursday, September 24th, 2009

Under: How to Get Back With My Ex

“I miss him,” she said to me. A tear ran down her cheek and she looked downward at the coffee shop floor. How could I help this poor woman get back her ex boyfriend? It wasn’t going to be easy, but I was going to help her get him back. Here’s the first tip I gave her that day.

The first thing that Marianna had to do was give herself some separation from her ex. They had a loving relationship for several years, and the heartache of breaking up was killing her. It had only happened a week earlier, and her sense of identity, of normalcy was imbalanced. Give herself some space and give him some space to let heavy emotions become a little lighter, to let anger and fear lessen with some objective thoughts on the situation.

Giving her boyfriend space is without doubt a crucial first step to get back an ex lover in any situation. When we chase after an ex, they will run away by nature, scared of the desperation and neediness that the chaser exudes. Remember the Wile E. Coyote cartoons where he chases the Road Runner? The needy desperate ex is the coyote. The other half of the relationship instantly becomes the road runner.

How would you react if someone was chasing after you? Think of someone in your past who creeped you out by following you too closely or posting strange messages to your phone or e-mail. That person probably thought they had the best intentions, when all they did was push you farther away.

Examples of relationships breaking up are far too common, they are happening all over the world every minute of the day. How many of those relationships do you think get back together? It only happens if there is a focused system is followed. There are guides out there on the topic. How do you find the right breakup guide? Read some reviews, try some money-back guaranteed ebooks, and see what works. The internet has made getting back together with him that much easier.

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