Many of the articles I’ve written and read have a similar strategy, which generally play by the rules, which is what I normally recommend. But for the sake of exploring other possibilities considered ‘black hat’, let’s take a look at four mind games that may get your ex back.

Without further ado…

Dating Mind Game #1 - Appear happy. What this means is that if your ex has broken up with you, don’t project feelings of hurt or depression, but instead you adopt an attitude of happiness with the breakup. You now consider that what happened was for the best. This takes away any kind of leverage that you ex may have had as the one breaking up. This may get your ex to reconsider leaving you, which you can clearly use to your advantage.

Dating Mind Game #2 - Appear indifferent. If you are somewhere that your ex is as well, for example, don’t pay them any attention. If they attempt to start a chat with you, smile, be polite, but plainly tell them you’re too busy and carry on what you were doing. This will definitely strike a chord with your ex.

Dating Mind Game #3 - Use the power of jealousy. Use a friend of the opposite sex as leverage around your ex. Make sure you’re extra touchy around your ex, let him or her see how happy and easy-going things are for you.

All three tactics are generally a lttle tough to pull off, you’ll need some acting capabilites and the ability to check your emotions at the door.